Tuesday, May 4, 2010

3 Obsessive Behaviors That May Cause You To Stress Out

If you have the following mentioned behaviors, you are most likely will get stress out:

You thoughts are too negative


People that are pessimistic tend to be more stressful to people have an optimistic mindset. For example, if you always talk to yourself or people like, "I can't do this", "I can't handle this", "No on understand" etc. This kind of situation is what the experts said "sour grapes" attitude and it holds you back to see a positive and beautiful side of your life. In fact, being too negative will also reduce your energy level or your efficiency of completing tasks so if you always have this type of attitude, you should start and impress your life such as having the income to sustain your life, still alive and without any sickness and so on.

You are a perfectionist

A typical attitude of a perfectionist is, can't accept "just so" but being everything over performed. Well, I don't see anything wrong when one is striving their best to give the "perfect" outcome. However, when you are too obsessed about that, you are on an edge of driving yourself to be stressed out. That is nothing perfect in our lives because we are just human. Human does make lots of mistake and in fact we are imperfect, or having physical boundaries in our lives. For example, we will be sicked, we have to sleep, we can't be in two places at the same time, etc. So sometimes we just have to let the things that are imperfect go!

You are too obsessed in analysis

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There is nothing wrong of being analyze things over and over. But it is similar to you are a perfectionist, if you are doing the same thing over and over again with a long period of time, you are tended to be burn out. So it is important to balance work and life enjoyment.

Stress - So what is the "cure"?


If you have the behaviors mentioned above, you should ask the people you trust about are you too negative, or too hard to be around? Sometime the truth hurts a great deal and it is hard to listen to this, but the feedback return from your closed friends and members of families help you a great deal to realize yourself and rectify the potential problem of causing anxiety attacks or physical sickness etc. But the sooner you find these problem the better is for you.

After all I understand we are living in a highly stressful lives, where we need to meet expectations of our superiors, take care ourselves and children, so

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